Month: April 2015

The Melting Pot

For today’s show, we focused on many different topics; taking about 20 minutes on each question. It had a great turnout and I’m glad Logic recommended it. I think we will be doing it once a month. It will be called Rock Soup – BYOQ (bring your own question).

1. What are your thoughts on what’s going on in Baltimore?

2. Paranormal – have you had an encounter?

3. What’s going on with Bruce Jenner?

Join hosts Logic, BJ, Cee & Jill. Of course me too, Ky!
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How to Resolve Conflicts in a Relationship

Even the happiest relationship has its conflicts. In fact, experts claim that a good, loving relationship can never be completely conflict-free. Two people who love each other will encounter problems and difference in opinions. This is normal. In fact, this is a sign that your relationship is working.

Therefore, you should not try to avoid conflicts or arguments at all costs. They are healthy and can actually make your relationship stronger. However, it’s important to know how to resolve conflicts in a productive and respectful manner. This is the only way to make it work.

How to Argue in a Good Way

While conflicts are a normal part of any relationship, it’s important to avoid some common pitfalls. Whatever you do,

Couple Having an Argument

Couple Having an Argument

remember how much you love your partner. Never forget about this love and respect. You can argue and get angry, but you should never use this conflict to hurt or humiliate your partner.

A key to a successful conflict resolution is to be able to voice your concerns openly, even if the other person disagrees. Once you know how the other person feels, it is possible to find a common ground or find another solution to a problem. However, in order for this to work, both of you need to be open for a compromise and ready to hear what the other person has to say.

Another important thing to keep in mind is that you should never hide your feelings. You should let your partner know how you feel, especially if they are the ones who hurt you. Communication is the key to happiness in a relationship so you should be able to be open about your feelings and concerns.

Conflict-ResolutionTips for Conflict Resolution

Here are some useful tips on how to resolve conflicts and arguments in a relationship:

  • Make the other person know you care. No matter how angry or distressed you are, let the other person know you care about them. You can show you are angry and you can talk about any problems you wish to discuss, but it’s important to let the other person know you still love them. Remember: criticize behavior, not the person. Let your partner know you do care about them even if you are angry.
  • Control your emotions. This is probably the most difficult task. When we are angry, it’s easy to lose control. We yell and vocalize our anger in many ways. This is a very common reaction, but losing control over your emotions is rarely productive. Not to mention it will probably prompt the other person to react in a similar way. There is no much chance for conflict resolution when two people are yelling at each other. Also, when you lose control, you might say some things you don’t really mean and hurt your partner in the process.
  • During an argument, we tend to focus on our own point of view. We believe we are right and that other person couple arguingis wrong. While this sort of thinking is not surprising, you should always be ready to listen. Try to control your anger and hear what the other person has to say. Do not dismiss their words; think about them. Be open to the idea that you might made a mistake. Be ready to listen what your partner has to say and why they feel the way they do.
  • Don’t resort to name calling. This is a very bad thing to do. Not only it’s disrespectful toward your partner, it serves nothing in terms of resolving a conflict. In fact, it will only make it worse. Remember, whatever you do, you need to let your partner know you care, and you cannot do that if you call them names.
  • Pick your battles. It’s important to know when to get angry and when not. Do not sweat the small stuff. Chances are that there are some things your partner does that you don’t really like, but unless it’s something major, it’s usually better not to focus on it. A good relationship has to include some compromises so you need to know when to get angry and when not.
  • conflict-resolution (1)Be patient. This is a very difficult thing to do, especially in the heat of the argument. However, it’s crucial for a successful conflict resolution. Take a few deep breaths and pause to think. It’s often wise to stop the argument when tensions are high and come back to discuss the problem once both of you are calmer. Do not expect quick, immediate solutions to problems.
  • Learn to move on. Once the conflict is over, leave it in the past. Do not dwell on the old arguments and don’t use them as “weapons” in future conflicts. Once a problem is resolved, it’s best to leave it in the past and move on. This is a good way to avoid any future conflicts around the same subject.

Sugar Babies, Open Relationships, and Cheating. Oh My!

Last night we tackled the growing phenomenon of Sugar Babies who rely on Sugar Daddies/ Mamas.

We also talk about cheating and open relationships.

Char discusses being a sugar baby.

Hosts Oran, BJ, Cee & Char. Of course me too, Ky!

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The Real Side of Parenting

Did you miss last week’s live show? Well here’s your chance to hear it again:

Being a parent is the best job in the world. We love all of our kids equally and they are the best things that happened to us. Being preganant made me feel like more of a woman than anything. I felt the glow and it was amazing feeling someone growing inside of me. When I first saw my baby I fell deeply in love.

BULL!

Tonight we speak the truth on parenting!

Hosts Jill, Cee, Logic, and BJ!

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Little Things You Can Do to Keep Your Woman Happy

Sometimes, men think it’s very difficult or expensive to keep a woman happy. While it may be true in some cases (we are all different!), most of the time, women appreciate little things. You don’t really have to spend a fortune to keep her happy, nor do you have to think of complicated gestures to show your love. Simple, little things are what keeps a woman happy in a relationship.

Of course, there are some big things you need to think about, too. Trust and respect, for example, are essential for a good-relationshipgood relationship. If there is no love nor respect there’s no reason to build further. However, if you are in a loving relationship and would like to keep her happy, there are many sweet little things you can do.

Little Things

Contrary to the popular belief, it’s not difficult to make woman happy. It simply has to come from your honest feelings and respect. The problem is that men and women sometimes have different ideas on how to express their love and respect. Think of these little things as a way to show her your feelings in a way she can understand and feel appreciated.

Little things to try:

Compliment her. All men know about this, but not all know how to do it properly. The best way to compliment Compliment Heryour woman is “just because” – to make her feel better about herself and to make her happy. Don’t compliment her just to gain something in return. Women know men often offer compliments as a way to gain a favor (be it of a sexual nature or not), and they know how to recognize when you’re not being honest. As for what to say: you know her better than we do and you know what makes her happy. You also know what you like and admire about her.

Thank her. Women tend to do a lot of little things to keep their men happy, and it’s important that you are aware of this. Do not take it for granted. When you see she’s doing something nice for you or that she’s investing her time and energy in you, show your appreciation and thank her. Do not assume it’s her “duty” to please you and do not take it for granted. Also, you may take it as a hint that she’d like you to do something similar for her.

Don’t shy away from romantic gestures. Many men dislike romantic gestures because they find them corny and emasculating. Some women, too, dislike typical romantic gestures like flowers or breakfast in bed. By all means, if your woman dislikes these things, do not do them. However, there is always something nice you can do to make her feel special. The trick is to make it all about her. This is what a romantic gesture is. It doesn’t have to be grandiose and it doesn’t have to be expensive. It just has to send a clear message that you’re thinking of her and doing this for her and her only.

Show your love in public. While the level of intimacy you display in public will depend on your individual lovepreferences and comfort, you should never make your woman feel ignored while you’re outside. She wants to know you are comfortable to be with her and that you are not afraid to show this to the world. Do not pretend she’s just a person walking near you or that she’s just a random acquaintance. Make her feel you are proud to be with her and that you don’t mind expressing that in public.

Know how to apologize. Some men think it’s unmanly to say “I’m sorry”, but nothing can be further from the truth. If you know you’ve made a mistake, apologize. If you see she’s upset with you but you’re unsure why (it happens!), do not ignore it. Communication is the key. We all make mistakes and it’s respectable to admit it. It is yet another way to build trust between partners. Never be too stubborn to admit you’ve made a mistake and that you’re sorry.

Make her laughMake her laugh. This is probably the best thing you can do for your woman. Life is full of hardships and problems, so she needs to relax from time to time. Be the one who will make her smile and remind her how enjoyable life can be. It will not only make her happy but will also make your relationship stronger.

These are just some of the things you can do to keep your woman happy. We are sure you can think of more – it all depends on your lady and what she likes! What are some of the best things to keep a woman happy? Share your thoughts below.

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