Month: August 2016

How do I find the strength to let an argument be, when I am right?

How Do You Let an Argument Be, When You Are Right?

We all like to be right. But sometimes we just KNOW we are right, but can’t get someone else to see our point of view or even budge from an alternative stance on the same subject. It is so frustrating. It can get so heated. So how do you just let it be for the sake of saving the relationship?

Sometimes it is hard to us to step back and submit to others in a way that makes us feel like we lost something. However, if we take the high road and allow others to have their moment, it can have an effect on the relationship that fosters respect for each other’s views. In essence, agree to disagree.


The bigger question is how do you do this when you know you are absolutely undisputedly right? Is being right worth risking a longstanding relationship? What about the fallout for allowing the other person to go on being wrong when you know to be a good friend, you should really correct them?

There are many different views on this subject and we want to hear from you! What are your thoughts? This can be a pretty controversial topic for some people. Leave your comments below and be sure to follow this post to see what others have to say.

To get more insight and see the advice some Quora readers have click here.

Healthy Banana Pancakes

Most of my recipes include banana due to easy of baking for a kid who has LOADS of allergies. Banana pancakes are the easiest. I go between banana pancakes and banana fritters (which I will post the recipe to next week).

Anyway the recipe I like is one I found on Pinterest and that you can view here. Of course, as you know, instead of wheat flour, I use 1/2c oat flour and 1/2c Red Mill Gluten Free All Purpose Flour.

Also, instead of milk (or Almond Milk due to allergies) I use flax seed milk or rice milk

After you’ve made it, let me know what you think in the comments below.

But here’s the video so that you can cook right from this blog post – courtesy of Nesha.

Catching A Cheater In A Relationship

Google defines cheating as act dishonestly; be sexually unfaithful.

We continue our discussion on this question from last week: How long does it take to forgive someone who cheated on you?

Char thinks there are different types of cheating and some shouldn’t hurt so much expecially if it’s “just sex.” A listener messaged in and said if the other person doesn’t know, don’t tell and move on.

We discuss this more tonight and want to hear you opinion.

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Would You Know if Your Spouse is Cheating?

The other weekend, I was making a very special dinner for my husband and myself for a very special day in our relationship – the date we met! I thought I had all the ingredients, but when I started preparing the meal, I found out that I was missing a few things. So I did what any sanity seeking wife would do – I asked my husband to run to the store so I could continue preparing the rest of the meal.
He gladly went.

This is one thing I always love about my man. He was always so helpful.

An hour and a half later he showed up with my missing ingredients, looking flustered and with all kinds of excuses. You see, he ran into an old friend at the store and they got talking. He didn’t realize they were talking for so long.

Well, needless to say, the meal was ruined and so was the evening. I was so upset, because he has always been the most wonderful husband to me.

The few weeks were contentious for us, and we were at each other’s throats over the simplest things. Avoiding each other became the norm during this time, and he stayed late for work a lot to avoid the confrontations.

After about a month of this, we finally sat down and talked it out, and things went back to normal. I had my lovable husband back!

He told me that during the time we were not speaking much things got really busy at work, so he may still have to stay late until things slow down. I love how he feels responsible for things at work and wants to provide for the family!
A week later, we were taking a romantic walk in a local park by the river. We were holding hands and having a wonderful conversation. It was like we had just met and all those new relationship feeling were front and center again. We were so happy we made a point to take this walk every weekend to enjoy this time together.

About a month later, when we were enjoying our walk when he dropped my hand as a woman approached from the other direction. We all politely said “hi” as she passed, but I noticed his eyes lingered. I asked if he knew her, he said he thought she looked familiar, but no.
Why am I telling you this? I am telling you because he was already cheating on me the day I sent him to the store and had been for a while. He was gone so long because, as I later found out, he went to see her when he went to the store.

His ongoing fight with me was an excuse to see her while telling me he was “working late.” And yes, even after things at home seemed to get better, he was still seeing her and “working late.”
So, why did everything at home feel like it was perfect? Well, he told me that she was just something on the side, but he loved me! He told me he was very happy with our relationship and never intended to leave. cheating

How could he say he loves me and cheat on me? Why did I miss the signs? What caused this to happen in what seemed like a perfect relationship? How could I be so stupid and not know?

Let’s talk about this! Tune in today at 6pm est where we discuss how to know if your spouse is cheating!

Superman V Batman Dawn of Justice Review

Ok let’s start out by saying I know I am late to the fame but I was not paying $20 to go and see this. I already thought the concept was stupid based on the story and the previews so I had to wait for Netflix.

That being said, I really wanted to like this movie because I felt bad for Ben Affleck, but it’s HORRIBLE. The director has no vision, the story made no sense, and it was just two thumbs down with a kiss my ass attached.
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Let’s delve deeper shall we?

Superman – Henry Cavill

The portrayal of Superman was all wrong! Superman never says things like “you are alive because I allow it” or shows any kind of **they say** God complex or narcissism. This portrayal of The Man of Steel was an atrocity. **side note: this is coming from someone who HATES Superman and his boy scout ways.

Batman – Ben Affleck

Although I do like Ben Affleck as batman, this Dark Knight was done incorrectly as well. I do like how we saw him building muscle, saw his scars, and his fighting style was INSANE however, since when does Batman use guns to kill people? That’s one of his vices, he can’t used a gun because of how his parents were killed. **see Batman Beyond and why he hung up his cape**

Lex Luthor – Jesse Eisenberg

Oh.My.God! This was the WORST! Lex Luthor was someone’s nightmare mix of I don’t know who and the Joker. Lex Luthor is a BRILLIAN, evil, and sane guy. THIS Lex, was crazy, balling, drooling, losing focus, ticking – just so not Lex. WHY was he younger than Superman when he’s historically older and WHY IS HE NOT BALD?
Just horrible on all fronts.

Alfred – Jeremy Irons

Since when has this been Alfred. That’s all I have to say about that.

Wonder Woman – Gal Gadot

Yea the actress is pretty but I would have rathered a belivealbe version of Wonder Woman. You know, the one where she actually looks like an Amazon, has some kind of muscle tone, and is not 95 lbs soaking wet? This actually pissed me off.


Here’s my list of women who could have played Wonder Woman:

nikki_bella_stat NIKKI BELLA Jamie-Alexander-as-Wonder-Woman JAMIE ALEXANDER gina_carano GINA CARANO


Since the hell when was Doomsday made by Lex Luthor out of GENERAL ZOD. I mean what in all the freaks?! All of them….even the little freaks. Why did this have to be in the story/

The way the movie was shot was VERY confusing; like a jigsaw puzzle that a 9 month old was trying to put together and got bored and began eating it instead. What? Exactly.

My favorite parts:

When Batman first sees Superman. I like the look of surprise on his face and the fact that he thought he could run him over. HAHAHA
Batman’s big fight scene

Least favorite parts:

ANY scene with the fake Lex Luthor
The ending fight scene with Wonder Woman
How the fight ended between Batman and Superman “WHY DID YOU SAY THAT NAME?!” “Save Martha” “WHO’S MARTHA?” *Lois* “It’s his mother” (Oh well ok then let me stop beating his ass. That explains everything.) UGH!

I give it 2 stars out of 5 for some good fight scenes

Ps did anyone else notice the crust in the side of Ben Affleck’s mouth at the benefit towards the beginning of the movie. I mean for God’s sake, for as much as this movie costs they could have yelled cut and had him wash his mouth or EDITED IT OUT. I couldn’t look away. YEESH!

Tell me what you think in the comments below. Do you agree with or disagree with me.

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